Top Five Dating Mistakes Guys Keep Making
Dating may not be easy, but it isn't rocket science
either. Take note of the following five things you as a guy should never do on
a date or the dating dont's for guys.
Pretending
Never lie about who you are with a woman, because she
will find out the truth eventually. When you act natural, you're much more likable. Pretending turns a date off quickly and leads her to believe you've
got something to hide. If the two of you don't hit it off simply by being
yourselves, there wasn't much between you anyway. Also, an act can be hard to
keep up with, especially if you're going out more than once. Don't be afraid of
who you really are, what your job really is or how much money you've got in the
bank, it's you she's looking to get to know, so show off your real personality
instead.
Not Really Listening
Even if you aren't all that enthusiastic about the topic
of conversation, listening is a skill you must master when dating. Paying
attention to what's important to her will ease nervousness and open her up to
the possibilities of getting to know you better.
Gawking
Unless Kate Upton walks in suited up for the SI swimsuit
edition, keep your eyes on your date. Tell your date you like things about the
way she looks, like her clothes or hair.
Moving Too Fast
Girls hate it when you expect too much too soon, because
it really belittles who they are as a person. It makes them feel like they
aren't important, or that you could be dating anyone for that purpose alone.
Let her know she's special by doting on her rather than putting any kind of
pressure on her by your expectations. Things can progress naturally at a pace
you both can live with if it works out. Otherwise, you might just get an abrupt
cold shoulder and no further contact.
Not Calling Back
If you're really interested in a girl, give her a call
back or shoot her a text. In the event that you really don't want to hook up
again, let her know that too.
While the rules of dating may not be set in stone, there
are many things you've got to keep in mind. Your date will see right through to
a great person and want to know more.
Pretending turns a date off quickly and leads her to
believe you've got something to hide. Don't be afraid of who you really are,
what your job really is or how much money you've got in the bank, it's you
she's looking to get to know, so show off your real personality instead.
Unless Kate Upton walks in suited up for the SI swimsuit
edition, keep your eyes on your date. Tell your date you like things about the
way she looks, like her clothes or hair. While the rules of dating may not be
set in stone, there are many things you've got to keep in mind.
